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We gonna get our ham…

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Hambone (see an earlier post) has been on my mind lately.  Recent events, a Roots marathon…a lot of things bring it up those ideas.  Hey Hambone – we got some ham!

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I’ve been a bit busy lately.  My grandfather passed away a week ago last Sunday.  Although it was expected (he’d been sick for awhile) and he had lived a long life (he was nearly 90), it’s still…a thing. 

So while getting back to work on this blog, I thought I’d share a story from him.  He wrote this a few years ago, I’ve just transcribed it.  As you can see, stubbornness runs deep in my family. 

In 1943 I bought a 1939 Chevy car on a Friday.  Paid cash.

That Saturday night it was two carloads of white men came to my mother’s house.  Told her to tell me to have the car back to them Sunday morning.

I did.

I asked them to return my money.  They wanted to charge me $8500 for keeping the car two days.

Remember I paid cash for the car, therefore I did not owe them anything.  When I finished talking with them, they were more than glad to return all my money.

One Saturday evening my brother Bennie and I was up town (that’s what we call it – up town).  Three white men push my brother into the street.  He came and told me.  I went with him.  He pointed them out.  I waited in a ally for them. I had piled some bricks and watch for them to come pass.  They did in about 45 minutes.  The rest [is] history.

Not long after that I came to Trenton.  My mother had just about had enough of me.  I think she thought the same thing would happen to me that happened to my Grandfather.

3 Feb 1921: Grandfather Jim was lynched because he would not dance.

The white man pulled out a gun and ordered my Grandfather to dance.

My Grandfather took the gun and shot him.

This happened three years before I was born.

 

The Numbers

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This week, I learned about The Numbers.

The Numbers is a local lottery game played in many communities.
Sometimes it’s called bolita. Sometimes the lottery. But usually,
just the numbers.

You can play a number straight. This way, you only win if the exact
number comes out.

You can box it. This way, you win if your numbers come out in any
combination (i.e. 781, 718, 871, 781)

Or – you can parlay it. (Sometimes this is called a “pairs bet”.)
This way, you play X81 – anything ending in 81 you win. Or 78X and
anything starting in 78, you win.

The numbers come out at least once a day, sometimes more.

Dream books all say something different. One book may say “You dream
of snakes? Play 683”, another may say “Play 932.”

You can look up your name – or someone else’s – in a Dream Book and it
will give you a number to play.

You can play the number of a body part (some dream books have charts for that).

Some dream books are published each year and have a lucky number for each day.

You can look up your birthday and see what numbers (or days of the
week are lucky for you). (For me – Saturdays are good. So are
January and October.) Some dream books also do horoscopes.

Sometimes the winning number is tied to the horse race. Some say the
stock market. But really, you know you won when the numbers runner
tells you you won.

Some people say you shouldn’t waste your money on the numbers. But
when you can bet a dime and maybe win a few bucks…. why not?

photo credit: vicie rolling